25件奢侈品 你有多少？

有幸在一個朋友的空間看到了這篇文章，心裡面有那麼一點觸動。

本來以為，他所說的奢侈品可能是香水，珠寶，名牌服裝，手錶……看了之後才明白，原來我太膚淺了，但我也慶幸，這25件奢侈品，我並不是一無所有其實。。。這些奢侈品好多就在自己的身邊，只是已經習慣了他們的存在，而變得理所當然了。。。。

蝸居》裡面，宋思明說：「可以用錢解決的問題，也就不是問題了」確實如此，但是人的一生中，最奢侈的東西並不是擁有很多的財富就能同時擁有的相反，懂得去欣賞、去發現生命中真正能讓我們有發自內心喜悅的「奢侈」品才是最重要的

下面是一生人可以擁有的25件奢侈品，你擁有了多少？

1 能背著包包走天下的健康

2 舒心的工作

3 起風的天總有人提醒你加衣

4 睡著的時候總有人為你蓋被

5 穿上便宜T恤也很美麗的健康身材

6 寫得一手好字

7 想旅行時，總有談得來的朋友願意請假陪伴

8 每天都能踏實地睡個好覺

9 會欣賞美麗的心和能欣賞美麗的心情

10 每時每刻都過得有意義和幸福

11 一個教會你愛和被愛的人

12 你為之甘心付出的寶寶

13 心中永遠的自由

14 帶給他人向上的精神特質

15 學會放棄

16 學會承受

17 接受並珍惜生活賜予你的一切

18 親自播種，收穫

19 珍藏一件凝聚情感的物品

20 尋找失落的童心

21 心境開闊

22 信守一個諾言

23 嘗盡美食

24 偶爾使個小小壞

25 把你所能想到的一件浪漫的事變為現實

What a joke

Feeling headache this morning unfortunately I got to work all day as usual 11am to close (reached home @ 1am and my house just 2 mins walking distance to work place).

The worst thing is even u feel not very well but u still need to do something that u suppose not to do in this cloudy and windy weather - it's freezing x

That's buy something from a nearer chinese supermarket x

Suddenly thinking of my MILO n Soda cream cracker.

Miss them so much, but...........there is no more stock in that shop....

Heading back to work place after buying that necessary stuff without my lovely food xxxxxx

Asking my manager: could i go to another chinese supermarket to buy some cream cracker????

I have a very bad headache and it able to cure my sickness, my medicines xxxxxxxx

haha...what a joke, cream cracker to cure a very bad headache xxxxxx

But it's quite lucky that the final pack of ping pong brand cream cracker in my hand right now xxxx

And cream cracker to cure a very bad headache become a topic for others to tease me xxxxxx

of coz they all knew that this just as an excuse but it really bright up our day xxx

so funny xxxxxxxx lol

简单的道理,幸福一辈子... [转载]

一生尽量少谈几次恋爱，经历的太多了，会麻木；分离多了，会习惯；换恋人多了，会比较；到最后，你不会再相信爱情；会自暴自弃；会与你不爱的人结婚，就这样过一辈子。 关于爱情：不要认为后面还有更好的，因为现在拥有的就是最好的。不要认为还年轻可以晚些结婚，爱情是不等年龄的。不要因为距离太远而放弃，爱情可以和你一起坐火车的。不要因为对方不富裕而放弃，只要不是无能的人，勤劳可以让你们富裕的。不要因为父母反对而放弃，你会发现因为这个原因而反放弃的爱情，将是你一生的悔恨。其实对于爱情，越单纯越幸福。

关于爱情：也许爱情是一部忧伤的童话，惟其遥远才真实。放弃一个爱你的人并不痛苦，放弃一个你爱的人那才痛苦。若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离，若是无缘总是相聚也无法合意。凡事不必太在意，更不需去强求，就让一切随缘。逃避不一定躲得过；面对不一定最难过；孤独不一定不快乐；得到不一定长久；失去不一定不再拥有。爱是一种享受，即使痛苦也会觉得幸福；爱是一种体会，即使心碎也会觉得甜蜜；爱是一种经历，即使破碎也会觉得美丽；不要因为寂寞而错爱，不要因为错爱而寂寞一生。

关于伴侣：伴侣不是结婚时发誓非你不娶或非你不嫁的那个人，而是发现你身上有许多缺点仍然选择你的那个人；伴侣不是生活中你爱吃黄瓜他（她）也爱吃黄瓜的那个人，而是你吃 蛋清他（她）吃蛋黄的那个人；伴侣不是天黑了和你一起手挽手走进饭店的那个人，而是守在门口巴望你回来共进晚餐的那个人；伴侣不是和你大谈爱情，把“我爱你” 挂在嘴边的那个人，而是和你平淡的唠叨柴米油盐、锅碗瓢盆的那个人。在幸福的婚姻中，伴侣已不是一个具体的人，而是你和他（她）在几十年的岁月中沉淀下来的： 一份默契、一份温情、一份平淡、一份理解、一份宽容。爱他（她）就要让他（她）开心，这就是伴侣。

关于承诺：在古希腊传说中，情侣都将戒指套在对方的中指上，因为他们相信那儿有一根血管直通心脏。所以戒指的意思就是用心承诺！但是人世间有多少爱能生死白头，又有多少的情可以天长地久？所以你选择共度一生得未必是你最爱的，你最爱的未必能和你共度一生。多少的有情人走不进彼此的今生，只能苦苦地相约于来世；而多少的男男女女走过爱情走进婚姻却不会再珍惜彼此的付出。所以记得珍惜你爱的人，把每一个平淡的今天当成是彼此相依的最后一刻，好好握紧爱人的手，即使他（她）容颜已老，即使ta满面沧桑，那也是你记忆中永恒的温馨。别忘了守住对他（她）的承诺，别忘了牵住他（她）的手，一生一世一辈子……

关于人生：人生如梦，岁月无情。蓦然回首，才发现人活着是一种心情。穷也好，富也好，得也好，失也好。一切都是过眼云烟。想想，不管昨天、今天、明天，能豁然开朗就是美好的一天。不管亲情、友情、爱情，能永远珍惜就是好心情。记得有一个经典短信这样写着：曾经拥有的不要忘记；已经得到的更加珍惜；属于自己的不要放弃；已经失去的留作回忆；想要得到的一定要努力；累了把心靠岸；选择了就不要后悔；苦了才懂得满足；痛了才享受生活；伤了才明白坚强；总有起风的清晨；总有绚烂的黄昏；总有流星的夜晚。人生就像一张有去无回的单程车票，没有彩排，每一场都是现场直播。把握好每次演出便是对人生最好的珍惜。把握现在，畅享人生！

关于友情：有一天，友情和爱情碰见。爱情问友情：世上有我了，为什么还要有你的存在？友情笑着说：爱情会让人们流泪，而友情的存在就是帮人们擦干眼泪！朋友就是：偶尔会为你担心、向你关心、替你操心、想你开心、逗你开心、请你放心。朋友之间，懂得关怀才是难得。伤心时不妨和我说；痛苦时别忘了跟我讲；有病时别忘了通知我；困难时记得要请教我；失望时要想起还有我；开心时更不要忘记我。朋友的定义，就在于此。我们是朋友，这就够了。

关于微笑：被人误解的时候能微微的一笑，这是一种素养；受委屈的时候能坦然的一笑，这是一种大度；吃亏的时候能开心的一笑，这是一种豁达；处窘境的时候能自嘲的一笑， 这是一种智慧；无奈的时候能达观的一笑，这是一种境界；危难的时候能泰然一笑，这是一种大气；被轻蔑的时候能平静的一笑，这是一种自信；失恋的时候能轻轻 的一笑，这是一种洒脱。不管是有什么事情，为了什么原因，我们每天都要开心一笑~~

关于生活：日出东海落西山，愁也一天，喜也一天；遇事不钻牛角尖，人也舒坦，心也舒坦；每天领取谋生钱，多也喜欢，少也喜欢；少荤多素日三餐，粗也香甜，细也香甜；新旧衣服不挑捡，好也御寒，赖也御寒；常与知己聊聊天，古也谈谈，今也谈谈；全家老少互慰勉，贫也相安，富也相安。

关于幸福：相传幸福是个美丽的玻璃球，跌碎散落在世间的每个角落。有的人捡到多些，有的人捡到少些，却没有人能拥有全部。爱你所爱选你所选，珍惜现在所拥有的一切。人活着就是一种心情，把握今天，设置明天，储存永远。只要用心感受，幸福就会永远存在。 人总是对自己拥有的东西不珍惜，直到不再拥有时才会加倍怀念，而在得知自己快失去自己所拥有的东西而又无能为力时，就寻死觅活地不肯放手，歇斯底里往往发生在这个时候，而对于生命的执著确实是到死才放手！

人生，没有那么简单……幸福伴随悲伤，快乐总和痛苦相伴，这就是人生。今天总要过去，明天充满未知，自己活得快乐没有遗憾就好。【琉璃物語】

Blog status

Havent update my blog for an ages....

Bcoz of the 'i had forgotten'

yeah...that's right

too busy in working, playing hard,

and the status put on by my friends 'Sin Yin as a shopperholic' x

so...dont u think i have enough time to update my blog?????

I promise will update more when i m free.......

But i think the plan will b postpone again.......

I m going to work all day tomorrow......

Next will b Morpeth after work and Blyth at the next day.........

Working again and Flamingo Land during my only off day........

See......how full of my schedule.............

Right...it's time for me to sleep now.......

Havent sleep well for the whole week.........

Bcoz of the farewell party at Madame Koos........

Hoppings at town moor and Sushi feast at Vaddie's house.......

Bye bye everyone.....

ZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzz...............

Annoying

Really really annoying x
BUT it is expected if staying with 8 peoples in the house x
Everyone know that i will wash all my clothes at sunday night coz I off at MOnday.....
But after wait for 2 hours, they told me another person waiting as well x
why????
Why everyone queing to shower at the time i back home????
Why they cannot shower more earlier as they will take very very long time....
Haih...Why i needed to pay more but i got no chance to use any facilities in the house x
damn annoying x

Let's celebrate!!!!!!!!!

After lost my iphone for 16 hours....
I get back my phone x
Thanks to Newcastle people,
I LOVE U GUYS...........
Coz u guys are really nice and honest x

Down mood

I AM SUPER DUPER DOWN NOW...............

WHY.....

WHY.............

WHY........................

COZ I LOST MY IPHONE X

DAMN SAD NOW XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Lazy + Busy Life

I am damn lazy to update my blog....
Why????
Lazy coz no internet connection at home and have to online at friends' house x
Lazy coz started working full time and no enough time for me to think too much things x

SO...
Please do not blame me as I really very busy recently x
I am going to move into new house soon....

Time full of busy and tired x

But sure I will work hard for the money x
And play hard for relieve my pressure x

Looking forward next week...
Monday - Move to new house x
Tuesday - Sea fishing with colleagues x

Birthday Celebration!!!

26 July 2009....
Venue : Golden Phoenix
Golden Phoenix is one of the K room in Newcastle, and this is my first time sing K after one year stay here...lol
However, it's a joyful and happiness party for all of us....


All Treasure ROom and Dragon House staff x


All girls and Birthday's guy x


My working place x

Time to say goodbye

19 july 2009

Step to 10 months time I am staying at Newcastle...

It's time for me to say goodbye to our lovely house....

Why said the house is lovely???

Because....our landlord is kind and nice x

12 Roxburgh Place - Bye bye

The house is full of our 10 months memories...

All good, bad, happiness, sadness, hardworking, laziness also happened in the house...

Look like the house is watching how we grew up in this 10 months time....

However, we all graduated and time to say goodbye to all my friends.....

Who back to Malaysia on 19 July....

It's mean time for me to move in to another house...

78 Heaton Road - those just one road far from 12 Roxburgh Place...lol

Moving into new house - 78 Heaton Road
Most love the basin...

12 Roxburgh Place - Clean everything before move out,

Like the time when i move in x

Our Lovely landlord - Mr Clive

Graduate Congregation on 15 July 2009

Our academic congregation held in city hall on morning section - 10.30am...

However, this was a great experience for me....

Dunno what can i say in this moment,

I grad finally.....

And time to say goodbye to Northumbria University...

Ah Ma, ngoh dak zor lar.....Hahaha

Degree holder of BA (Honours) Human Resource Management in my hand right now.....

On the stage x


Callum, Jean and me x

Fallon, me, Maz and Jeannine x

Cathy, me and Rachael x

Karen and me - Lecturer for people resourcing x

Jumping Pose x

Nice shot x

Yeah, love this so much x

Malaysia gangs x

Childhood Memories

Recently too free and always surfing on You tube....
And suddenly click to the website of seven fairies....
Yeah...Most people in my age should know this group...
In chinese we call 七仙女。。。。
To continue my paragraph, chinese version will be more attractive and easy to understand...lol
七仙女这个名字带给了我们不同的童年回忆。。。
就像外婆的彭湖湾，小草，童年，阿美阿美，乡间的小路，你那好冷的手，爸爸的草鞋，雨中即景，永远活在青春期。。。。还有很多很多的校园民谣。。。数也数不清。。。
听着听着。。。。又忆起小学时期。。。歌唱比赛的时期。。。大家都忙着选歌和练习。。。忙得不可开交。。。而通常被选的歌曲来来去去就是这几首。。。呵呵呵。。。
只可惜现在大家都长大了，读书的读书，工作的工作，出国的出国，全部人都忙得连见个面，喝杯茶也难。。。。年纪越大，压力越多。。。。童年回忆只能放进时间的隧道里。。。不过偶尔拿出来回味也不错吧！！！
天真，活泼，灿烂的日子里我们越来越远咯！！！

COngratulation!!!!

Firstly i am going to congratulate all my friends who can graduate on time...
All of us suffer from waiting waiting and waiting....
Dunno the results until last minutes....
Finally -- We all passed at this Degree stage....
Yeah.....
Even though I am not really satisfy to my results....
Because I put all my effort into the module....
Properly will be I am not really good in my english....
All my coursemate get know of my problems....lol
But atleast I can grad on time...
This is the most happy time for all Malaysian buddies who further study abroad....
I would like to thanks to all my coursemate those help me a lots in my studies....
Without u guys I think I will face with more and more problems....
Thank you very much....
And would like to congrats u guys get first honours, second upper....
And I also appreciate that I am able to get second lower...
Coz I know some of them failed to do so...
So..I am the lucky one in the class.....
For Malaysian buddies -- Congratulation for all of U guys....
And one more person in our group who get first honours -- Eugene....
Hurray...Let's meet on 15th July and we attend convo together.....

Suffer from insomnia

I think I will suffer from insomnia for the whole night
Why??????
I am fear fear fear............
I am anxious anxious anxious......
I am worry worry worry worry..........
I am afraid afraid afraid...........
Now is tension tension tension......
And nervous nervous nervous............

Why Why Why??????
I am now suffering from nervous tension............
Because of...............

All the results will be officially release by 2nd of July 2009......
That's mean all the results will out few hours after this......

Second Upper???
Second Lower???
Third Class????
Or
Failure???????

I can't stop to think of this....
My brain not allow me to take rest......
Stresss.............

But...It's fair for us???
I dunno......
I dunno how they calculate the marks.....
Since that some of my friends get lower marks than me....
But maybe they could get second upper but I can't.....
Why???????????

Everything have to wait until the results out.........
Hey peers.........
Just wait for my latest news........
I will no longer suffer after tomorrow.........

Paris Trip

Yeah, we went to France for our vacation during 22 to 25 June 2009...

It can be say that Paris trip is our graduation trip x
We have 5 person including Choi Kuan, Wai Kuan, Gary, Eugene and m3......

Paris was amazing and we enjoy our trip there...
But the trip was too short for us - 4 days 3 nights....
We are unable to go all the place especially Du Lourve, this is one of my regret....
Sure I will go to Du Lourve one day and look for the famous Mona Lisa painting...lol

Supposed wanna update my blog when back from Paris...

However I am too lazy to do so....

Therefore my plan delayed.....

Here I will upload photo randomly from my album and write down some notes x

We are waiting in the Newcastle Airport lounge


Reached Paris Airport - Charles DE Gaulle

Eiffel Tower

Arc de Triomphe

Catholic Church - Basilique Du Sacre Coeur

Notre Dame de Paris

Paris Disneyland

I like this photo, look like my leg very slim...lol

Lourve

In the flight - way back to Newcastle

Newcastle Airport

In the Taxi - On the way back to 12 Roxburgh - Our Newcastle house

Please Stop teasing me!!!

I think everyone will shock when saw the title...
Basically people who know me will know I am always the one bully by people,
teasing by people, trap by people....
Maybe this is my own problems....
I am too soft + strong patience....
Dislike to involve into war.....Dont care about what people talk about me....
But dunno why this benchmark let to I faced with a lots problems....
Like all those stuff will appear in front me and never leave.....
I always believed that rumour will appear when the place got people....
Yeah...I think all the rumour will keep follow me until the day i die....
Yuck.....My patience is going to grind soon.....
So...Please stop teasing me or I will become evil soon.....
However, just hoping I wont bcome evil forever.....
The line between Angel and devil is nearness x

Blank in my life!!!!

SInce that I finished everything on my study.
I realised that my mind set bcome blank....
Blank bcoz i had no direction in my life right now....
I am always facing with my laptop right now....
Almost all the Hong Kong movie i had finished 'boil'....
Lazy to do other stuff right now....
Lazy to update my blogspot as well....
Haih....................
Who can help me and save me.......
I dun want this kind of life x

Graduation Ball

Graduation Ball held on 7th June 2009, this is my first time attend ball in Newcastle, it can be say that this is the only graduation ball for undergraduate student in year 2009. However, this was a great and unforgetable experienced for me and all my friends. Below are some of the photo we took during the night x


Hi peers, how do u think of my new look??


Rachael Fletcher is one of my best friend in Newcastle....



Eugene is always a smart guy in our group x

This 2 people did 'sao ka ye' at hotel lobby...Damn 'xia sui' us x

'Wat Tat' look...Their style...Hahaha

Choi Kuan was the only girl wearing suit during graduation Ball, so cool x

Wai Kuan would like to act as a gangster, how do u think of his pose???x

Gary Tan bcome very smart, u can't imagine how messy while he is not wearing suit...

Sorry bout that to say like this, but this is truth!!! Please do not blame me x

Roy Roy so handsome x

COursemate -- Steph Wright n Rachael Fletcher

Family member @ Newcastle!!!